
As months passed and the social isolation, hostility and false accusations of wrongdoing intensified, Sheila (BCBusiness agreed not to identify her or the university) worked even harder to prove her tormentors wrong. “I became a better teacher, published more papers and earned more grants and awards,” she says. “But each achievement was seen as confirmation that I consider myself better than everyone else, each protestation against an unfair accusation a sign that I am a difficult person. And when I make no protestation, it’s seen as an admission of guilt.”
Like scores of men and women in workplaces in B.C. and around the world, Sheila was a target of “mobbing,” a painful, insidious form of emotional abuse at work. Mobbing is the latest wrinkle in bullying, a workplace phenomenon that’s been around as long as work itself. Where traditional workplace bullying usually involves a dysfunctional relationship between two co-workers, mobbing is the relentless persecution of one employee by a group.
Mobbing is defined as a conscious effort to exclude, punish and humiliate a co-worker. It’s different from bullying, which is far more prevalent, is usually committed by one person targeting another and ends when the offender is transferred, fired or leaves the company. Mobbing starts with one or two perpetrators, then spreads like wildfire through an organization. You are being mobbed when colleagues attack your dignity, integrity and competence over a period of months or years. As the abuse accelerates, more co-workers unquestioningly accept the party line that you are unpleasant and inept and have no place in the organization.
Such relentless persecution is often fuelled by envy, suspicion, gossip and innuendo and thrives in tumultuous organizations where bad bosses and sadistic employees are protected by apathetic management or watertight collective agreements, a climate in which good people are afraid to speak out for fear they will also be targeted. Unfortunately, this collective silence condones and even exacerbates the bullying; without a dissenting voice, perpetrators become even more emboldened.
Based on the personal stories told to BCB, here’s how mobbing happens. One day, completely out of the blue, you’ll realize that your projects are winding down and you don’t have enough to do. Your new assignments seem designed to isolate you from your co-workers: either your workstation is moved or people no longer seek you out. As time passes, you may be deliberately excluded from meetings or not given enough time to
A phenomenon long recognized in Europe, mobbing is on the rise in Canada due to the growing labour shortage, and that rise is particularly steep in the west. Experts say B.C. business leaders need to heed warnings about disturbing workplace conduct such as mobbing. If firms are to compete internationally for skilled workers, they must become coveted places to work. That means addressing ugly, often hidden issues affecting employee health and safety and demonstrating less tolerance for toxic behaviour during working hours.
Vancouver employment and human-rights lawyer Sue Paish, who has dealt with numerous cases of workplace abuse and harassment, has a serious warning for B.C.’s employers. As companies scour the globe to replace retiring boomers from the shop floor to the executive suite, the result will inevitably be a more diverse workforce in terms of age, gender, religion and race. She wants to warn B.C.’s business community that a more diverse workforce will inevitably lead to more employee conflict – a surefire precursor to bullying and mobbing.
And it’s trending up. In 2005, B.C. welcomed 44,000 immigrants, 7,000 more than in 2004. To help ease the workplace crunch, the provincial government launched a new program last year to link newcomers with job opportunities, and help them overcome barriers related to language proficiency, academic qualifications and skills upgrading.
Paish warns that cultural diversity is well and good as long as newcomers are properly integrated into a healthy workplace. While the government may be making efforts to ease the transition, it won’t be enough. There must be a sincere commitment by management. “I’m concerned because we’ve struggled for 30-plus years to address issues raised by women in the workplace, and we’re still dealing with them today,” Paish says. “I don’t think employers have the luxury of time when it comes to managing the cultural issues they are about to face.” Her contention that diversity can fuel conflict in the workplace is supported by University of Waterloo researcher and mobbing expert Ken Westhues, who reports that many of the bullying targets he studies have foreign accents.
BCBusiness first came across the mobbing phenomenon while researching an article on bad bosses (“Bad boss, bad boss”) for our December 2006 issue. After reviewing personal anecdotes on local websites, we were surprised when 21 people emailed us, describing long-term group-bullying experiences at work. Several referred to themselves as mobbing targets, which prompted us to dig deeper. The word “mobbing” turned up more than six million hits on Google, including a B.C.-based website, nobullyforme.ca, formed in 2003 by former Vancouver bullying targets to offer support and information to Canadians traumatized by co-workers.
Comments
I have heard from a lot of
By Anonymous, November 19, 2008 at 03:46I have heard from a lot of victims of bullying and mobbing since I wrote these articles last year. I urge anyone experiencing such problems, or who knows someone who is, to check out the resources and support offered by nobullyforme.org. You are absolutely not alone.
Vicki O'Brien.
I work in Mental Health for
By Anonymous, November 17, 2008 at 17:16I work in Mental Health for two organizations. One of them is the local hospital which has a "Respect in the Workplace" policy. Unfortunately, it appears to work like a cosmetic in that it looks really good on the surface but hides a lot of nastiness underneath. A lot of workers consider it to be a kind of joke given the worksite bullying that continues. I just got finished talking to someone who has been driven to leave her job due to worksite bullying which was completely unresolved by the union and the RITW mediator. She has decided to do what so many of us are driven to do, (Yes, I went through my own horrific situation a few years ago) get out and move on. Its amazing that here we are addressing so many issues of injustice and here is one so nasty and insidious and so very difficult to deal with. My situation led me to a place where I only work casual in one job and then have a part time position as a mental health consumer advocate. It means that there is a minimum of opportunity to be drawn into workplace politics or to be perceived as a threat to anyone to the extent that they can target me on a regular basis. So I just don't accept work when that person is working. But now in my position as advocate, I'm having people coming to me wanting to know how to deal with this.
Thank goodness for sites like this where this problem is being brought out of the closet and acknowledged and discussed.
Sharon, Prince George, Canada
i am experiencing mobbing
By Anonymous, November 8, 2008 at 21:11i am experiencing mobbing at work and i am from europe management is included in this and i feel i have no where ot turn to. i feel isolated. where do i go?
I've witnessed it. I've
By Anonymous, October 18, 2008 at 18:11I've witnessed it. I've been a target. Now one of my coworkers is a target. He's very gifted, and he is gay. He also relocated and is a 'foreigner' in his new office.
I'm worried that he is going to be very damaged and possibly suicidal if he doesn't act. I'm talking to him Monday to convince him to get some help. He's documenting his case. He has tapes and witnesses. But like a lot of targets, he can't easily move on--he's under contract in a foreign nation.
Thank you for your work. I belief it is helpful when we can name it. It bleeds some of the poison.
This is an unfortunate
By Anonymous, October 3, 2008 at 21:13This is an unfortunate exposure of what exists on a daily basis for many people in the workplace.
I am in Australia, and Bullying, Harassment & Mobbing is rife.
It is true... that Bullies attack the best and brightest employees,eroding their self-esteem and dignity.They demoralize the departments they work in,and undermine creativity and joy.They jeopordize their employers reputation, and put them at risk of liability.They disrupt service to customers, and diminish value to shareholders.The serious consequences of mobbing are very real and hurt us all.It is time to say, “Enough is Enough!”.
Thanks for reporting on important & relevant topics.. Chloe, Sydney, Australia.
Whew - A lot of this
By Anonymous, March 24, 2008 at 09:27Whew - A lot of this information is similar to an ongoing experience I am dealing with at work. Well, now from home. I work in a mental health facility as a clinical member of team. I have only begun to "entertain" the idea that I am experiending symptoms of PTSD. Trouble is being bullied and then mobbed has impaired my health. Tough to fight back while ill ... even tougher to recover without resolution. Thanks for a good article. Karrie
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